Words to Live By

I have come across some wonderfully inspiring and titillating books that I believe would immensely benefit everybody who reads them and all those that they come into contact with.  Some of these have changed my life in previously unimaginable ways.  They have greatly expanded my consciousness and my capacity for sensual pleasure.  I am certain that you will enjoy them as much as I do!  Feel free to let me know your thoughts and feelings about them as your reading.  I'd love to exchange notes with you!

Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida  A must read for both men and women!  This book helped me understand myself like I never had before...and it's written by a man!  This guy has unbelievable insight into women and will help you to connect more fully and authentically to your healthy masculine energy.  Raising our vibrations


Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris (a local sex and intimacy coach whom I have had the very excellent pleasure of meeting with)  I cannot say enough amazing things about this book.  It will blow the doors open on your intimate experiences and bring you to previously unimaginable realms of pleasure.  Seriously.  (See my blog for more info on this book!)


She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.  I really should have this book at the very top of the list and should be handing these out at the door.  Read this.  Please read this book.  And then come see me and show me what you've learned!  This will change your life.  And mine too!  Ha!  This guy really knows his stuff and his easy to understand and fun approach makes this an excellent read and a serious benefit to man- and woman-kind. 


The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton  The back of the book touts: "The guide of choice for people curious to move beyond conventional monogamy, and for anyone interested in learning better skills for love, sex, and intimacy."  Need I say more?  Seriously though - amazing book for this day and age as we try to find our way out of oppressive societal relationship norms.  A must read!


The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search for Meaning by Katherine Ketcham and Earnest Kurtz (This one changed my life!)


Tantric Quest by Daniel Odier

The Power of Intention by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Finding God Through Sex by David Deida

Tantric Orgasm for Women by Diana Richardson (Men...another excellent one to read if you want to be an amazing lover!)

Sexual Energy Ecstasy by David Ramsdale and Ellen Ramsdale (Excellent!)

The Art of Sexual Ecstasy by Margo Anand


Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles Muir and Caroline Muir  I've had the pleasure of doing a number of workshops with Charles Muir.  He definitely has some wisdom to share with us!

INTIMACY COACH ~ Stella Harris

If you are looking for some help building "your intimacy tool kit", I highly recommend a visit with Stella!  Check out her website here.